Thank you, luckily it's you

There is no such thing as the "right person" in this world.
There are only people who continuously develop a healthy personality.

      Mature intimate relationships have vitality, like "I am here, you are there, we are connected to each other but also independent, we share a space of tolerance and transcendence."

      I am responsible for healing my own pain, and I accept that you have your own pain... With this respect and empathy, we connect with each other in this relationship field - we are both vulnerable and strong, open and flowing, intimate and limited...

      The ultimate intention of people meeting each other is to help each other become more complete. Through relationships, we can see ourselves, see the parts of ourselves that need to be connected and healed.

 

    With a person, for me, the greatest significance is that through this person, I can see the areas where I need to grow. It is because of this person that I become more complete. We can turn complaints and accusations into gratitude, saying "Thank you, if it weren't for you, I wouldn't have been able to discover myself."

      A good intimate relationship is one where, my dear, through you, I discover those parts within me that are not complete, that need healing, that need to develop. Without you, I wouldn't be able to know myself and become whole.

      Therefore, in a relationship, it's important to collide, heal, observe, and develop. Each person is responsible for their own healing, and this is a crucial aspect of an intimate relationship. Perhaps we can define true love as the process of two people coming together to help themselves and each other mature mentally.

      Entering a relationship as our complete selves, we will see that our partner also has their own journey to travel. But our completeness can bring strength, awareness, and awakening to them. During our journey, we can reflect each other, be grateful for each other, and become more complete through each other.

      Love is a skill and a lifelong practice. Through practice, we bring connection, listening, holding, and goodwill to all the lacking parts within ourselves. As we become more and more adept at doing this, we may realize that even conditional love is still the most beautiful love.

      In a relationship, our partner has already given us everything they can give us. They can't give us what they don't have. However, through our partner, we can see our own needs and desires. As adults, we can take responsibility for our needs, and this can help us embark on a journey of consciousness evolution, healing, integration, growth, and transformation.

      So, thank you! Because of you, I have become more whole.